Peace (and quiet)

Seriously, that's all I want at this stage of my existence.  I want to distance myself from drama and chaos and I don't want to be a factor of either.  I could live alone in a room with windows, a fridge,  TV,  my Kindle, and a toilet!  That sounds a lot like a nursing home room (sans the fridge.)   I don't want a roommate! I prefer to smell my own excrement!  I could live in my little cottage behind the house and be quite content.  Of course, if I no longer know my name...or yours, I may need someone to randomly check on me, take out the garbage and replenish my supply of toilet paper.  I'm hoping I'll be friendly when you pop in and not throw a can of Vienna sausages at you or shoot you with my Nerf gun.  A real gun would be as useless as the letter "H" in yeah!  I'm a horrible shot and even at short distances have been known to have squirrels on a feeder in stitches.

Until the time that this scenario becomes a reality, I am content reading, planning for the next holiday or birthday, watching mindless television and laughing with friends wherever we go. I enjoy my grandkids and I hope I contribute, even minutely, to their knowledge and well-being!  I do enjoy my own schedule but generally, adapt to things changing... as long as it doesn't interrupt my football! On Sundays at noon...don't call or stop in...just plain don't do it!  If you're having a party or gathering that you would enjoy me attending, do it on a Saturday.  I'm flexible for college ball!

Soon it will be fall and my favorite time of the year will be upon us. Most folks like spring with all things being re-born....nope not me.. I'm the crotchety old lady that enjoys the crumpling leaves and the colors associated, welcomes the chillier weather and wraps her Christmas presents in September.  I like the peace of kids back in school and the quiet of living at EIEIO. I really don't ask for much!

Overdue

Yep...way past my usual blogging hiatus.  I seriously need to pen my thoughts but not sure the world wants to hear them.  Not even my closest pals need to be depressed along with me and believe you me, you'd be depressed!

I read somewhere once where some animals eat their young. I get it!!!!  When you have children, you virtually agree to give up your "way of life" for them. You especially do that when you sign a paper and agree to love, educate, instill goodness and kindness and protect them!   I have always jockeyed around the ideas and ideals of nurture versus nature.  Let me just explain that they both suck.  I did my best at the nurture part as the nature part was predestined.... or so I thought.  I have proof positive that you learn what you live BUT......................when you change environments, that can drastically change too.  You're learning new stuff so you adapt to your surroundings and those within it! (Not always a good thing!)

I could write a book!  In fact, I think I will begin to write some tales in the very near future. It won't be a bestseller or a how-to! It probably won't be a work of fiction because truly folks, you can't make this shit up!  Stay tuned and I may possibly throw a few excerpts your way.... that is if I don't throw them all AWAY! 

My journals alone, if not burned at my demise, will definitely leave my family (or friends) shaking their heads.  I hope they love me now because I'm pretty sure they'll scorn me when I'm gone!

Stay tuned!

So long since..........

So long since I've blogged...My mind has run out of storage. my data is maxed out and I'm running on safety mode for charging. I always thought that my senior years would be relaxing, uneventful and maybe even a tad boring... Not! 

I'm tired, stressed, grumpier than usual and sad. A whole lot of things I don't want to be and I'm having trouble controlling. Life was so much easier when you could tell your kids what to do, when to do it and why it was important.  As adults, at least physically, they are less steerable!  I still believe it's my responsibility to be their GPS (Guiding Parental Stimulation!)  One listens, learns and appreciates. One rebels, rejects and ignores! So many roads to travel with no destination ahead.  I will continue to do what I can for those who appreciate and be there for the littles who may be lost along the way. My heart breaks for the troubled journey that each will endure but I may just go off my beaten path and take a few side trips for myself.

Happy trails to me!!

The Two Types of Blue Moons

There are two definitions commonly used today:

• Seasonal Blue Moon: The extra full Moon that occurs within a season. One season—winter, spring, fall, summer—typically has three full moons. If a season has four full moons, then the third full moon in the season may be called a Blue Moon.
• Calendrical Blue Moon: The second full moon of a calendar month. It takes our Moon about 29.5 days to complete one cycle of phases (from new Moon to new Moon), so if a full Moon occurs on the first of a month, there will be a second full Moon at the end of the month, too (except in February).

WHEN IS THE NEXT BLUE MOON?

As of this writing, the next Blue Moon according to either definition will occur on May 18, 2019, at 5:11 P.M. EDT. 

This will be a seasonal Blue Moon, since the May full Moon is the third of four full Moons to occur in Spring 2019, defined by the Spring Equinox and the Summer Solstice.

The four full Moons are:

1. Full Worm Moon: March 20 at 9:43 P.M. EDT
2. Full Pink Moon: April 19 7:12 A.M. EDT
3. Full Flower Moon: May 18 at 5:11 P.M. EDT <- lue="" nbsp="" oon="" span="">
4. Full Strawberry Moon: June 17 at 4:31 A.M. EDT

My Brain Trust

At my age, brain fitness is a priority. I'm backing away from those who choose not to exercise their brains.....or use them at all.  Staying sharp as a senior is as important as staying physically healthy!  Here are a few tips to keep up the mental magic.

1. Learn something new..every time you learn something new, your brain makes a new connection. They even said learning to fly a drone and activate a new brain connection... That lasted about 2 crashes and a tree landing for me!
2. Take a walk...4000 steps a day produces thicker hippocampi (the part of the brain associated with long-term memory).  I guess 2000 steps just lead to thicker hips!
3. Be a Social Butterfly...talking, listening and socializing can be a super dose of mental fitness.   Yesterday, I overdosed!!
4. Food for Thought...They suggest eliminating dairy, gluten, processed food and sugar.   What else is there?
5. Go Nuts...Already there!
6. Stop and Smell the Rosemary...The sense of smell can trigger many memories and emotions.If you smell, spritz, sip or cook with fresh rosemary, you'll be promoting cognitive function and speed up memory.
7. Take a nap...A 40 minute nap can transfer memories from the hippocampus to long-lasting knowledge networks of the cortex.
8. Challenge yourself in fun ways! Walk backwards, write with your non-dominant hand, hop on one leg or even brush your teeth with your "other hand!" They say to work your brain the way you work your muscles..  Well, that analogy sucks!

I guess I might have to do some more reading on keeping my brain trust in the black and continuing to provide me with much needed revenue!!!

New Normal

Change is strange..... it's making things radically different to charting a different position or course.   I thought I was too old for change...little did I know. Some changes don't ask for permission. I'm in the midst of that right now.  Saying no is not an option.  I need to take the protagonist position right now but I don't have the power to affect the outcome...I don't like that......not one bit.

I'm supposed to be the elder with the experience and the good advice.  Without having the experiences, I find myself treading water while trying to decide which stroke will help me (us!)  Basically, I just want OUT of the pool! 

I have taken so many deep breaths lately that I've found myself with terminal hiccups.  What I want to do (and say) is nowhere near what I know is prudent. Then again, being prudent, cautious and filtered has never been my strong suit!

My new normal is helping when asked, abstaining from unsolicited advice, keeping the new monikers to a minimum and learning to accept that I am not only unnecessary but in some cases, unwanted. That's a challenge..especially during Mother's Day week when everyone seems to be over appreciative. 

I have reconciled that life is (will be) different. That I will be thankful for those who care, leery of those who do not and wise enough to know the difference.

P.S.  I still love Mondays!♥

PA. bound

The only reason I would relish the thought of Pennsylvania is to retrieve my #1.  New normal, new start, new goals.

Heading to Levittown !  Back tomorrow!  Ready for what comes next..

 Douglas MacArthur was a wise man:

Build me a son, O Lord, who will be strong enough to know when he is weak and brave enough to face himself when he is afraid, one who will be proud and unbending in honest defeat and humble and gentle in victory! ♥