Friday, August 2, 2013

Words of Wisdom

While my brain IS working this morning, it's in bookkeeping mode and not churning from it's creative section. For this reason, and the fact that this is all too true and all too enlightening, I'm borrowing some words of wisdom shared by our cousin Kay.

 
 

 AND THEN IT IS WINTER You know. . . time has a way of moving quickly
and catching you unaware of the passing years.

It seems just yesterday that I was young, just married and embarking on
my new life with my mate. Yet in a way, it seems like eons ago, and I
wonder where all the years went. I know that I lived them all. I have
glimpses of how it was back then and of all my hopes and dreams. But,
here it is... the winter of my life and it catches me by surprise...How
did I get here so fast? Where did the years go and where did my youth
go?

I remember well seeing older people through the years and thinking that
those older people were years away from me and that winter was so far
off that I could not fathom it or imagine fully what it would be like.
But, here it is...my friends are retired and getting grey...they move
slower and I see an older person now. Some are in better and some worse
shape than me...but, I see the great change...Not like the ones that I
remember who were young and vibrant...but, like me, their age is
beginning to show and we are now those older folks that we used to see
and never thought we'd be.

Each day now, I find that just getting a shower is a real target for
the day! And taking a nap is not a treat anymore... it's mandatory!
Cause if I don't on my own free will... I just fall asleep where I sit!

And so...now I enter into this new season of my life unprepared for all
the aches and pains and the loss of strength and ability to go and do
things that I wish I had done but never did!

But, at least I know, that though the winter has come, and I'm not sure
how long it will last...this I know, that when it's over on this
earth...it's NOT over. A new adventure will begin!

Yes, I have regrets. There are things I wish I hadn't done...things I
should have done, but indeed, there are many things I'm happy to have
done. It's all in a lifetime.

So, if you're not in your winter yet...let me remind you, that it will
be here faster than you think. So, whatever you would like to
accomplish in your life please do it quickly! Don't put things off too
long!

Life goes by quickly. So, do what you can today, as you can never be
sure whether this is your winter or not! You have no promise that you
will see all the seasons of your life...so, live for today and say all
the things that you want your loved ones to remember...and hope that
they appreciate and love you for all the things that you have done for
them in all the years past!

"Life" is a gift to you. The way you live your life is your gift to
those who come after. Make it a fantastic one.
LIVE IT WELL! ENJOY TODAY! DO SOMETHING FUN! BE HAPPY! HAVE A GREAT DAY!

REMEMBER:....
"It is health that is real wealth and not pieces of gold and silver.
"LIVE HAPPY IN THIS YEAR AND EVERY YEAR!

LASTLY, CONSIDER THE FOLLOWING:
TODAY IS THE OLDEST YOU'VE EVER BEEN, YET THE YOUNGEST YOU'LL EVER BE
SO - ENJOY THIS DAY WHILE IT LASTS.
~Your kids are becoming you......
~Going out is good.. Coming home is better!
~You forget names.... But it's OK because other people forgot they even  knew you!!!
~You realize you're never going to be really good at anything.... especially golf.
~The things you used to care to do, you no longer care to do, but you  really do care that you don't care to do them anymore.
~You sleep better on a lounge chair with the TV blaring than in bed.  It's called "pre-sleep".
~You miss the days when everything worked with just an "ON" and "OFF"  switch..
~You tend to use more 4 letter words ... "what?"..."when?"... "what?" . ???
~Now that you can afford expensive jewelry, it's not safe to wear it anywhere.
~You notice everything they sell in stores is "sleeveless"?!!!
~What used to be freckles are now liver spots.
~Everybody whispers.
~You have 3 sizes of clothes in your closet.... 2 of which you will never wear.
~But Old is good in some things: Old Songs, Old movies, and best of  all, OLD FRIENDS!!
 
It's Not What You Gather, But What You Scatter That Tells What Kind Of
Life You Have Lived.
 
I still like winter! Whether it's mental winter or physical winter or seasonal winter! How fun would life be if we never had to put on a sweater, or take one off, if we never got to see the leaves turn glorious colors and then "leave!", or if we had to picture Santa in a bathing suit flying over the beach. Winter is pretty important. It's the season where we slow down and watch our little piece of the world turn white......even if in reality, it's only our hair!

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